Common Wedding Blunders

Common Wedding Blunders
By Yolanda Nash

With any planned event, there is bound to be a few pitfalls to avoid and common mistakes that are made by the most organized of individuals. This is especially true when it comes to planning and executing a wedding, which is often the first time for many. It doesn’t matter if the wrong floral arrangements are ordered by error or cosmetic blunders are made on the big day, knowing the most common mistakes will help the engaged better plan their special moment in time.

Budget

For some, sky is the limit when it comes to planning a wedding, but when the final bills come rolling in, engaged couples might be in for more than they expected. Knowing that spending for a wedding can easily get out of control is a good reason to budget your big day. It is best to enter the event organization with a set financial plan allotted before any major plans are made. This means that following the budget is very important and will ensure better financial results.

Communication

It is important to clearly communicate your wishes for your wedding when ordering accessories and making vital arrangements. This is a significant part of getting what you want for your money and making sure you are the happiest on your big day. Wedding professionals who receive the most concrete details and orders will be able to deliver the best to their clients. For instance, telling the caterer what you specifically want and do not want on the menu (including ingredients) will make sure you are happy with the food served at the reception.

Photographer

To make sure you will have the best memories to look back on regarding your wedding day, the photographer you hire will play an important role. Some of the best results come when the photographer works with an assistant. If you want your photos to highlight the most important aspects of your special day, relying on family and friends for your snapshots is a no-no. You never know what you will get. Before signing a contract for a professional, you should always check their previous work.

Wedding Registry

Some people create wedding registries that far exceed the budget of some of their guests. It is suggested to provide a wide range of suggested merchandise that individuals may give newlyweds. When you provide a variety of price options for your guests, they will not feel put-out when it comes to choosing a gift. Some couples also fair well when making suggestions for gifts that could be given by groups of people who pitch in a bit of money towards a larger item.

Sample Important Aspects of the Wedding

Don’t be surprised on the day of your reception when the grilled duck is too salty or the chicken sautéed in mushrooms is too heavy. Before your wedding day, you should sample an assortment of food plates that a potential caterer may offer. This way, you can give the OK on the meals offered during the reception. The same goes for flowers – ask the florist to showcase what the wedding centerpieces and decorations will look like for the wedding before making any final decisions.

Beauty Woes

Looking your best at your wedding is one of the most important aspects of the big day. Before taking that walk down the aisle, you don’t want any cosmetic disasters to strike. It is highly suggested that you stay away from a new haircut, dye job, tanning, or chemical peel close to the wedding date. You never know when damage to your skin or hair may occur with not enough time to recover.

Yolanda is the owner of Yolandas Wedding Favors. She sells many different types of wedding gifts such as personalized cosmetic bags, spa slippers, glass mugs and many more wedding gifts. So if you are looking for wedding guest books, unity candles, toasting flutes, personalized bridesmaid gifts then visit Yolandas Wedding Favors.

Regards
Roger Mayne
Surrey Weddings

Buying a Wedding Dress

Buying a Wedding Dress
By David Beart

For every season, for every motif, for every person and for every color symbolism, there will always be the right wedding dress. Choosing what to wear in your wedding is as critical as choosing the the man you will be spending your sunset days with.

There’s a multitude of wedding dress styles to choose from – in some countries that have veered away from much of wedding rituals and traditions, dress styles number in the thousands. With this dizzying array, how do you choose yours? How do you make sure that your dress will be a reflection of the real YOU, not the fashion model on the glossy cover of magazines that grace bridal boutiques and corner stalls in the metropolis?

Buying a Wedding Dress: Style

The style of your wedding dress will depend on about four factors. There may be more but these are the most common ones we can think of:

• Type of wedding
• Your personality
• Your budget
• Your culture and that of your future husband

If you write down your thoughts about these four factors including any other detail you can think of, you’d have a good starting point for discussions with the boutique consultant. By rattling off your preferences, she can already come up with a short list and show you the styles immediately. This will save you time from browsing through voluminous catalogues and the sometimes crowded store racks.

Type of wedding: are you going to be married in a church and will the reception be inside a hall, OR are you going to be married in the beach, garden or in some enchanted island where guests will be free to roam around and then gather in an outdoor tent to offer their best wishes and congratulations?

An outdoor wedding would narrow your choices. You will certainly want to consider not wearing a gown that would require you to wear high heels, unless you want to leave permanent marks on that beautifully manicured lawn. Wear a gown that looks right with a pair of sensible but stylish flats to keep you from boring holes on the ground. For practical reasons, you may want to seriously not wear a long, down to the ankles type of dress. This will spare you from having to deal with a muddy hem. Make sure the hem is heavy enough not to fly up at the first sign of a sudden gust of wind.

For the same reasons, a train is not ideal for an outdoor wedding. You will likely find it covered in mud and grass stains by the end of the reception. If your dress comes with a veil, keep it weighted to keep it from blowing around too much, unless again you’d want your groom and pastor to chew on the lace by the end of the service, or risk the veil pin landing on someone’s cake.

Your personality: “tell me what you wear to your wedding and I’ll tell you what kind of person you are” may ring true, but remember that you need not be forced into wearing anything because it’s tradition or your rich mother-in-law has done the cherry picking in some designer’s rack. Your dress is you, inside and outside. Let it bring out the message on this special day.

Also, you’ll have to take your body type into account. If you have a good figure, show it off within the limits of decency, of course, especially if you’re getting married in church. Not that the pastor’s opinion should carry weight in the choice of your dress, but it is his church nevertheless, so be respectful of the place where your marriage will be solemnized.

A sleeve dress (one that clings to your body from neck to ankle) looks best on someone with a slim figure and curves to show off. If you’ve always been proud of your hips, look for a dress that flairs out a bit at the waist. If you want an overall slimming effect, do not invest in fluffed up sleeves and huge skirts, or you will look bigger than you really are. A skirt with lots of fabric so that it drapes and folds would be ideal. Do not add puff to the lower portion by adding a hoop or other fabric.

Your budget: who says you need a designer dress? One does get “suffocated” by the usual styles out there. You could spend thousands of dollars on a wedding dress that will end up in an attic somewhere, only to be looked at when nostalgia strikes. Many brides think of their future daughters when they buy their wedding dress, but remember that your daughter could end up saying, “how could you wear a thing like that to your wedding, mum?”

If you have other wedding expenses and don’t want your wedding dress to take up the lion’s share, you can ask a sister or close friend to help you design a wedding dress. We know of a few friends who asked a private seamstress to do their dress, and they charge considerably less than boutiques and designer outlets.

Culture: The factor of culture plays a dominant role in weddings and when one wears a wedding dress that is typical of one’s culture, then the conversation gets livelier. For example, if you’ve been to a Scottish wedding, you’ll know that tartans and Highland kilts will be the dominant features of the wedding attire. Tartans are colorful fabrics that are also known as plaid. Scottish people also put accents to make the dress more attractive – like a Celtic knot that stands out.

Or you’ve seen the traditional Chinese attire. Brides will usually wear a red Chinese dress because red symbolizes love. If you’ve been to a Greek wedding, you’ll notice that both bride and groom wear flowers on their head instead of a veil.

Buying a Wedding Dress - Color

The color white, traditional for wedding dresses, was originally used to signify the bride’s virginity to the gathered witnesses. This virginity was likewise attested to by the hanging of a blood-soaked sheet the next morning. Though the custom of the bridal sheet has died, the customary bridal color still seems to be alive and well for the most part. Widows or divorcees might choose an ivory color to keep from claiming the white, but if tradition prevails, brides stick with what is expected in this sense.

The color white is not mandatory though. A differently colored dress would make a wonderful splash on your wedding day. The color red, for example, means joy, love, and fertility and is traditional for brides in China. No rules exist saying brides cannot wear purple or sage; indeed, an outdoor wedding might look even lovelier with a deviation from strict tradition. Always check with your pastor to see if you and your entourage can wear different colors, and ask him which colors are strictly forbidden.

Buying a Wedding Dress - Stories for You

If you’re feeling a tad overwhelmed by wedding preparations and agonizing over your wedding dress, you may want to take a break, sit and lounge on your favorite armchair, and curl up with a good book. We’d like to suggest My Wedding Dress: True-Life Tales of Lace, Laughter and Tulle published last month (January 2007) by Random House (ISBN: 978-0-676-97846-9; 0-676-97846-0). It’s an anthology of thoughtful essays that cover the full range of bridal sentiments, before and after the wedding. One of the contributors said that “the most important thing about the dress was that it wasn’t white, it wasn’t long and it had not a whisper of tradition clinging to it.”

There are about 26 essays from different women who talked about their wedding dresses and some of them, already divorced, described how their dress “felt all wrong” or “didn’t fit” or “it just wasn’t me.”

By taking time off from wedding preparations, you can re-charge yourself by reading about weddings. Wedding stories never fail to bring a warm glow to heart or trigger your love for laughter. For example, we looked for a story about wedding dresses and we found a funny one online from the Canadian Press (May 2005). It tells the story about a couple, Christopher Cummings and Charity O’Brien, both from Missouri, who got married on the Mendenhall Glacier in Alaska. The title of the news story caught our attention: Weddings on Ice. Exchanging Vows on Alaskan Glaciers.

Guess what the bride wore to her glacier wedding?

The usual, white traditional – complete with sequins. But what else did she wear with it? We’ve chosen this paragraph and want to share it with you:
“The bride wore a curvy, strapless white satin gown sprinkled with sequins. She also had on tights, sweat pants, rain pants and a pair of hefty hiking boots fitted with spikes.”
“The groom was charmed. ‘That's the way she is…’ ‘although the dress was a surprise.’
Don’t forget. YOU get to choose, not anyone else. It’s personal, it’s special, and it’s an occasion that may happen only once in your life.

David Beart is the owner of http://www.professorshouse.com. Our site covers such topics as weddings, dating, relationships and family issues.

Regards
Roger Mayne
Surrey Weddings

Choosing a Wedding Location

For some people choosing where to get married is the easiest decision they can make. If they belong to a church or have always dreamed of getting married at a certain place, there's not much for them to think about. But for many others the choice is not so obvious.

Your best bet is to start looking around for a location as soon as possible. It can take time to find a place that has everything you are looking for. Ask friends and family for recommendations and browse websites that cater to your area.

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Regards
Roger Mayne
Surrey Weddings